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Tuesday, 29 July 2025

Our UK Marriage Blessing and Celebration

Our wedding in Quintero in December 2024 was pretty much our dream ceremony and celebration, and we had an amazing day. The location was beautiful, and it was great to be with a big group of our Chilean family and friends.

But it did make me feel sad that my parents, along with the rest of our family and friends from the UK, weren't able to be there. So we always planned to have some kind of celebration over here at some point.

It took us a while to get round to it, as a lot was happening earlier this year, including our honeymoon and us moving to a different part of the country, but seven months later, with a lot of help from my parents, we organised a small event near my parents' house in Wiltshire.

We began the celebrations with a religious blessing of our marriage at the local church, which was very special and meaningful. It was really nice to have a religious ceremony after having a civil one previously.






















Of course, the best way to follow this up was with a trip down the pub! We had a great time celebrating at The Horse & Groom in Charlton.









It was quite a laid-back and informal day, but also really special and memorable. It's great to now have photos with our British friends and family that we can add to the ones we already have from our wedding day in Chile.

After a civil union, a civil marriage and a blessing of our marriage, we definitely feel well and truly married and will not be having any further ceremonies! Our wedding era has now come to an end, and we're coming out of it with so many great memories that we'll be looking back on for the rest of our lives.

Friday, 11 July 2025

Country Guide: Thailand

Name: Thailand

Continent: Asia

Capital (and Largest) City: Bangkok (in Thai: Krung Thep Maha Nakhon)

Language: Thai

Currency: Baht

Drives on the: Left

Time Zone: Indochina Time (GMT+7)

Adaptor Types: Type A, Type B and Type C

Description: Thailand is a country located in Mainland Southeast Asia, bordering Myanmar, Laos, Cambodia and Malaysia. It is famous for its beautiful beaches, Buddhist temples and world-famous cuisine, including curries and Pad Thai. Popular places to visit around the country include the vibrant metropolis that is Bangkok, the mountains in the north, and the beaches and islands in the south.

Why You Should Visit: Thailand is one of the world's favourite tourist destinations, and with good reason. From backpackers to honeymooners, millions visit each year and have a fantastic time. In fact, I visited earlier this year on my honeymoon, and it was one of the best holidays I've ever had. People there are so friendly, the landscapes and temples are incredible, and the food was delicious. I hope to go back someday!

Fun Fact: The Chinatown in Bangkok is the biggest in the world.


My Blogposts About Thailand

Charlotte's Travel Adventures

- Bangkok Days 1 & 2: Wat Pho, The Grand Palace and Wat Arun




- Jungle Camp Day 2: Cheow Lan Lake (Khao Sok National Park)

- Jungle Camp Day 3: Jungle Trekking (Khao Sok National Park)



Clockwise starting from top left: Benchakitti Park in Bangkok, Wat Yai Chai Mongkhon in Ayutthaya, Coconut Beach in Khao Lak, Moken Village in the Surin Islands, James Bond Island in Phang Nga Bay, Elephants in Khao Sok National Park

Check out the rest of my Country Guides here!

Tuesday, 8 July 2025

Year Abroad: The Most Popular Destinations

My travel recaps have all been written up, so now it's time for something a little different. This week, I feel like returning to my Year Abroad Series from April 2021, as I have at least another post or two to add to it!

Today I'm going to be writing about the most popular destinations to spend a Year Abroad in, and how to choose which one or ones are the best for you. As with my previous posts in the series, this is going to be focused on destinations for people who study languages at university and take a Year Abroad as part of their degree, but I'll also be looking at destinations for a general Gap Year.


Year Abroad Destinations by Language

At my university (the University of Nottingham), the languages taught were French, Spanish, German, Portuguese, Dutch, Russian and Chinese. I think most UK universities are quite similar, except they generally offer Italian instead of, or as well as Chinese.

So the most popular destinations for a Year Abroad are as follows:

French: France (and occasionally Québec)

Spanish: Spain and Latin America (I know that there are placements available in Chile, Argentina, Peru, Ecuador, Costa Rica, Guatemala, Mexico, Cuba and the Dominican Republic. When I was at university, placements in Colombia weren't available, but that might have changed since then.)

German: Germany and Austria (I'm not sure why, but there don't seem to be so many placements in Switzerland)

Portuguese: Portugal and Brazil


Russian: Russia (but this won't be possible at the moment due to current affairs)

Chinese: China

Italian: Italy


People's Opinions

I spent my own Year Abroad in France, Austria and Chile, and overall, had a pretty amazing time, though of course, there were downsides.

I had a great time doing a language course in Montpellier in summer 2017, but other than that, my time in France was a bit of a mixed bag, and often quite stressful, as I had a couple of work placements that didn't go to plan.

My time in Austria, working as a teaching assistant with the British Council, was a lot more straightforward. I lived in a fairly quiet, rural area near the border with Italy and Slovenia, and though I did feel a bit isolated at times, I really enjoyed the experience overall. The highlight for me was the amount of travel I was able to do at weekends: I went to Italy three times, Slovakia, Switzerland and Liechtenstein, as well as around Austria.

But the most memorable part of my year was the semester I spent in Chile. Despite the fact that I went through a real low point during my time there, I absolutely fell in love with the country and my life changed while I was there. In total, I was there was nearly five months, and while the first few weeks were great, the following six weeks were full of highs and lows, followed by a really difficult month or so in which I had to fight the urge to go home. But the last month was one of the very best of my life - this was when I met my now-husband! I also had some exciting travel adventures while I was there, visiting the coast and the south of the country, as well as Argentina.

In fact, I came back to Chile to live there for another 15 months from 2022 to 2023. Although life there isn't perfect (as in any other country), there's so much I really love about it, and even though we're now happily settled in the UK, I do miss it at times.

In terms of my peers' experiences abroad, Europe got pretty mixed reviews on the whole, but people generally loved Latin America. I think that's because it's very exciting to experience life in a completely different part of the world; these countries are often more chaotic than Europe, but can also be more fun and vibrant, with landscapes unlike anything you've seen before. I remember that Mexico in particular got really positive reviews, and nearly everyone had a great time in all other Central and South American countries. It was only Cuba that got more negative reviews, as it's a very restrictive country to live in, with a lack of internet, and regular water and power outages.

Overall, I believe that, if you're studying Spanish and/or Portuguese, and you have the opportunity, you should definitely step out of your comfort zone and spend at least a few months in a Latin American country. Of course, Spain and Portugal are both beautiful countries, and you can have a great time there, but most people will have been to one or both of these places on holiday before, so it's not quite the same new experience.


Reasons Why (And Why Not) to Choose Them

Leaving aside the languages where you pretty much only have one choice of country to go to, here are some pros and cons for the different countries you could choose...

France
Pros
- A range of diverse destinations, from the beautiful city of Paris, to the snowy mountains of the Alps and the sunny beaches of the south
- Lots of cultural attractions
- World-class food and wine
- Close to the UK, so relatively cheap and easy to get to
Cons
- Difficult to find decent work placements
- Some can find the culture difficult to integrate into
- Some areas, especially Paris, can be very expensive
- Bureaucratic

Québec
Pros
- A country with breathtaking nature
- Good opportunity to explore North America
- Very friendly people
Cons
- Super cold in the winter
- Expensive to get to

Austria
Pros
- Beautiful landscapes and architecture
- One of the best countries if you want to take lots of weekend trips around Europe
- People are generally more laid back than in Germany
Cons
- Aside from Vienna, it is a very rural country, so can make you feel isolated
- Expensive
- Very cold in winter

Germany
Pros
- Lots of big cities all over the country with a lot of variation between them
- Beautiful landscapes and architecture
- A great base for exploring different parts of Europe
Cons
- Can be very cold in winter
- A less open culture than other parts of Europe, so can be hard to integrate into

Spain/Portugal
Pros
- Sunny, warm weather most of the year
- Lots of vibrant cities with beautiful architecture
- Fantastic beaches
- Close to the UK, so relatively cheap and easy to get to
Cons
- Extreme heat in the summer
- Gets overcrowded with tourists in the summer especially

Chile (and other Latin American countries)
(I'm basing this mainly on Chile because that's where I have experience living, but I think the same points apply to most other Latin American countries)
Pros
- Incredible landscapes that are very different to those in Europe
- An opportunity to discover a part of the world that would be new to most people
- A warm and vibrant culture
- Generally very good weather
Cons
- Often more dangerous and unstable than Europe
- Less developed than Europe, which can be difficult to get used to
- A lot of bureaucracy, as many processes have not been digitalised yet
- More risk of natural disasters
- Expensive to get to

Most Popular Gap Year Destinations

Of course, more general Gap Year destinations tend to be located on the other side of the globe; Southeast Asia, Australia and New Zealand are all super popular. And with good reason - Southeast Asian countries have beautiful beaches, amazing food and stunning temples, and Australia and New Zealand have incredible nature, and are also very safe English-speaking countries.

Aside from that, travelling through Latin America is also a popular choice, as is interrailing through Europe. (Personally speaking, my own Gap Year was a bit of an unusual one, with trips to Slovenia, Austria, France, Spain, Belgium, and different places around the UK!) Unlike with a languages Year Abroad, you don't have any kind of obligations to spend certain lengths of time in countries that speak certain languages, so you have a lot more freedom to choose where you want to go and how long you want to stay in each place.

Whatever your reason for taking time out to travel, it's useful to go through the pros and cons of the different places you're considering visiting or living in. But I also think, in a lot of cases, it's good to just go with your gut and choose the destination that really calls your name - you're sure to have an amazing time!

























Destinations from my own year abroad from left to right, starting from top left: Bratislava, Slovakia; Cap d'Agde, France; Florence, Italy; Huilo Huilo Biological Reserve, Chile; Vaduz, Liechtenstein; Sargans, Switzerland; Velden am Wörthersee, Austria; Mendoza, Argentina

Tuesday, 24 June 2025

A Summer Weekend in Dover

Officially, the first day of summer this year in the northern hemisphere is 21st June (I know, I just looked it up!), but personally, I've always found it easier to categorise the seasons by months, like so:

Summer: June, July, August
Autumn: September, October, November
Winter: December, January, February
Spring: March, April, May

...which makes the 1st June the first day of summer. So, when Claudio and I went for a weekend away in Dover from the 1st to the 2nd of June, it felt like a great way to start my favourite season of the year!

We started our trip by taking the Elizabeth Line to Farringdon, followed by the tube to King's Cross/St Pancras. As we had a little bit of spare time before our train to Dover, we had a look around St Pancras International station. It was exciting to see the Eurostar trains going to France and Belgium!







Despite the fact that Dover is quite far from London, the train we took was high speed, and we were there in about an hour. Arriving at Dover Priory Station, I was happy to find some vintage travel posters, which I always love seeing!







The retro vibes continued once we reached our hotel, the Best Western Premier Dover Marina Hotel & Spa. This is one of those grand, 19th century English seaside hotels, located right on the beach. I'd always wanted to stay in a hotel like this!




Before checking in, we had a walk around the beach and the pier. From outside the hotel, we could see the iconic sights of the castle and the white cliffs, which was very exciting!











We entered the hotel and checked into our room, which was small, but very cosy, with views out across the beach and the sea. I'd done a search with flexible dates on the Hotels.com app, so had got the room for well under £100. I'd then made a bid of an extra £10 for a room with a sea view, which was accepted. All in all, I feel it was a pretty great deal!







While bidding for the room upgrade, I'd also added another extra to our stay: afternoon tea at the hotel's Churchill Bar & Lounge! This afternoon tea only cost around £20 per person, which I thought was quite a good deal, as in London, you'd generally be paying upwards of £30-£40.

Everything was so tasty (especially the scones!) and it was made extra special by the fact that we were sitting in the window, right next to the beach.





Later in the afternoon, we went down to the beach. In my opinion, it's not a proper beach holiday without a swim in the sea, so even though the weather wasn't exactly boiling hot, we still took the plunge and had a quick dip in the English Channel. As you can probably imagine, the water was very, very cold, but we felt amazing afterwards!

We warmed up in the best possible way, by visiting the hotel's spa, which has a steam room, sauna and jacuzzi. Though the steam room was a little too hot for our liking, the jacuzzi was absolutely perfect. It was a super relaxing way to end the day!

Waking up right next to the sea the following morning was very special. We could even see France in the distance, right from our bed!

We started the day with eggs on toast and coffee at Wheeler's Fish & Chips, which is also part of the hotel, before going off to explore.

Our first destination of the day was Shakespeare Beach, a tranquil pebble beach overlooked by cliffs. These are not the famous white cliffs that you see on postcards (those are on the other side of the town), but they were very picturesque.





Our next little adventure was climbing up the hill to the castle. With its steep stone steps surrounded by foliage, the climb reminded me of my hike to Machu Picchu, though, fortunately, it didn't take nearly as long!




We decided not to buy tickets to enter the castle - at £30 per adult, we felt it was just too expensive. (Since moving to Reading, I've been slightly shocked at how expensive most activities and events are around London and the South East!) But at least we were able to walk around it a bit from the outside. It's actually the biggest castle in the entire country, and it was pretty spectacular to see.













Then it was time for even more walking, as we made our way to the National Trust site on the White Cliffs of Dover.







The site has a really nice café and gift shop. Of course, being at the beach, we had to have some ice cream! It gave us energy to continue on with the last bit of our walk to get to the famous viewpoint of the white cliffs.




I'd never been to Dover before, so it was very special to see the cliffs, which are such a famous symbol of Britain. To make things even better, we could see the cliffs of northern France reasonably clearly in the distance. France has always been one of my favourite countries, so it was exciting to be so close!









To sum up, our weekend in Dover was super fun and a much-needed break for both of us. We've had our fair share of stress lately, what with moving house, and in my case, dealing with various issues at work while searching for a new job, and in Claudio's case, trying to get his first job in the UK. Fortunately, the latter is no longer a problem - Claudio has just started a new job, doing the same thing as he was doing back in Chile! It's a real relief, and I'm so proud of him, as the job market is really rough at the moment, and he was thinking he might have to lower his expectations in terms of the sort of role he could aim for. So it's a great achievement for him, and also gives us stability we've never had before (we've never both been in stable, full-time jobs at the same time).

So, overall, our new life in Reading is getting off to a great start, and we plan to have more little adventures like this in the near future!