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Saturday, 24 August 2024

Life, Travel and Blogging Update

Hi all!

This might be my last time writing on this blog for a while, so I just wanted to post a quick update about what's going on with me at the moment and my future plans for Charlotte's Travel Adventures.


Life in general

I would describe my life as having been in a somewhat transitional phase for the last year or so, but the good news is that things are finally moving in the right direction. After a lot of paperwork, money, stress and patience, Claudio's visa to live in the UK has finally been approved, and he's planning to come back next month! We did use legal assistance with our application, which helped a lot, but it was still a hugely challenging task, and we're so relieved it's finally done and our hard work has paid off.

Our next step, once he's here, is to look for our own place in the London area, but that may not happen as soon as we originally hoped. At the moment, my parents are both having some health issues, so I need to help out more in the house and possibly stay here a bit longer than planned. On top of that, the visa application and our upcoming wedding and honeymoon are all making a big dent in our finances, so it doesn't really make sense for us to move until Claudio has a job here and starts earning too.

Maybe it won't happen until 2025, but we're moving in the right direction now, and we're both really happy to be on the pathway to setting up a more permanent life together.


Our wedding!

Our wedding is coming up now in only a few months, which is hard to believe but very exciting! We can't wait to be properly married - though we're grateful that our civil union allowed us to get our visa to be able to live together, it's left us in the strange situation of kind of being "married" without actually being married. We always said that the civil union was basically just a legal process, and that our wedding and marriage would be the real event, but most people we know viewed the civil union as us getting married, and maybe that's meant there's been a bit less excitement among people we know surrounding our engagement and wedding than there would have been otherwise. (Of course, if governments didn't make it so difficult for couples from different countries to live together, we wouldn't have had to have a civil union in the first place!)

But I think that once the big day comes, it's going to feel very special for us, and hopefully for all our family and friends too. Our venue is exactly the kind of beach wedding setting I've dreamed of since childhood, and now the planning of the event is really coming together. We've got our date set, the photographer booked, my hair and makeup stylist booked, and I've bought my dress and had it altered. There are still more tasks to do, but we're feeling much more on top of things than we were, especially now that we don't have to think about the visa application anymore.

Another big task we've ticked off is booking our flights out to Chile and also reserving a gorgeous Airbnb in Santiago, where we'll stay in the days leading up to the wedding and for a couple of weeks afterwards, including over Christmas. I'm really looking forward to being back in one of my favourite cities and going back to something like the old lifestyle we had while we were in our little apartment in Ñuñoa, which I still miss. It's also going to be great to have a proper summer together, as Claudio went back to Chile on the 1st June and won't be back here again until late September, so he's basically missing the entire northern hemisphere summer. As for me, I haven't really done any fun summer activities since he left - I haven't had a holiday, set foot on a beach, or even been to a swimming pool. So our time in Chile is going to be a great opportunity to do all of those things we love, and I'm very excited about it!


Travel

Aside from visiting Westonbirt Arboretum in July, the only other day trip I've had in the last few months was when I went to London with my mum for a theatre day.

After a delicious lunch at Côte, we saw Frozen at Theatre Royal Drury Lane, which was fantastic. Although there were quite a lot of noisy kids in the audience, we really enjoyed the show (the quick change in Let It Go was a real highlight!) and the theatre was beautiful to look around.









Afterwards, we walked through Covent Garden, where there was an event going on with Nissan electric cars. One of the things I love about London is that there's always something happening!






Our day in London made me really excited to hopefully move there soon - it is one of my favourite cities in the world and both Claudio and I can imagine having a great life there.


Blogging

The final thing I want to write about today is this blog itself. 

I have a confession to make: I have lost a lot of motivation and interest in blogging and making travel content on social media recently. This loss of interest has been a gradual process that I've noticed particularly over the last 18 months or so, though I have had sporadic bursts of inspiration.

I fell in love with travel blogging during my Year Abroad, which led me to create Charlotte's Travel Adventures, a project that has been a huge passion of mine. During the pandemic years in particular, this blog was such an important outlet for me and I loved every minute working on it. Then life got more exciting and busier for me, and the blog took a bit of a back seat, but I always thought that the old passion would come back once life got quieter. However, since finishing the visa application, life has got quieter, and yet blogging kind of feels like work these days. I started writing a post last week that I thought would be really interesting to write, but the inspiration just didn't take me, and after having written just a couple of short paragraphs, I ended up deleting the draft - the first time I've ever done so. In addition, Google has been steadily de-indexing my posts and refusing to index any new ones since around September last year, which is quite demoralising.

My passion for travel is still as strong as ever, but while it used to go hand in hand with an equally strong passion for travel blogging, that's not really the case anymore. My other great passion in life, musical theatre, has come back into my life in a big way since January 2023, and maybe that's partly responsible for the lack of interest in blogging I'm now experiencing. Furthermore, after work and at the weekend, there are lots of other things I want to do more than I want to blog, such as watching musicals, movies, series and documentaries, reading books, singing, and working out. Stepping back from the blog will free up more time for me to do those things.

From now on, I won't be publishing anywhere near as many posts here as I do currently, and perhaps I might go months at a time without blogging. But there's no way I'll be closing this blog altogether - I absolutely want to post about our wedding and honeymoon and any other exciting trips we take in the future. And if inspiration takes me, perhaps I'll post about other travel-related topics occasionally. But I'll definitely be taking a break for the time being.

Thanks to everyone who's been reading here over the last several years. I hope to see you back here in the not too distant future! 😃

Saturday, 1 June 2024

Life Update and Spring Travelling

Quite a lot has changed since my last life update nearly three months ago!

Most importantly, Claudio and I have decided that we see a future for ourselves living and working in the London area, and we're now going ahead with getting a UK partner visa sorted. There's a lot to do in order to get all the necessary documents together, but if everything goes to plan, we'll be able to properly start our life together within the coming months, and ideally be living in our own place by the end of the year.

The other exciting news is that we've officially booked our wedding for December! We're going to be getting married at a beautiful location on the beach in Chile, which is just a dream come true. Of course, there's lots to organise for both the wedding and the honeymoon afterwards, but we're very excited about it all!

So, as you might imagine, we're very busy at the moment, and I haven't had so much time for this blog. But we've still managed to go on several travel adventures of varying sizes over the last few months, which I'll be sharing here today...


The Corinium Museum

After getting back from Rome, we wanted another fix of Roman history, so headed to the Corinium Museum in Cirencester. Cirencester was actually the second largest city in Roman Britain, so there are plenty of incredible artefacts from the era that have been discovered there, including beautiful mosaics and statues of Roman gods. It's amazing to think that the area we're living in at the moment was once part of the same empire that gave us places like the Colosseum and the Forum! 

Overall, visiting the museum was really interesting, and gave me a real sense of travelling to a different country - despite the fact that the artefacts all come from my local area!











An Easter Walk

After our Easter lunch, we decided to burn off some calories with a long walk over to the next village and back again in a circular route. For some reason, despite having lived in the same village most of my life, I'd never done this particular route before, and now wish I had! We passed through lots of peaceful countryside, and even made friends with a lovely horse!





STEAM - Museum of the Great Western Railway

We travelled to another period of history, when visiting STEAM museum in Swindon. I loved going to this museum as a child, but probably hadn't been since I was in primary school, so it was great to go back again after so many years, and also introduce it to Claudio.

The museum covers the history of the Great Western Railway, and is really fun and interactive - I remember that it really stood out to me when I was younger, because there weren't many museums around at the time that were so entertaining.

It starts with some sections about the different jobs that people did on the railways, and after that, you have the chance to see some actual steam trains - a couple of which you can go inside, and one of which you can walk underneath to see all of its components. You even have the chance to drive a train simulator and have a go at working in the signal box!

But my favourite parts are towards the end of the museum. Firstly, there's a recreation of a 1950s railway station, complete with a working vintage chocolate vending machine! And then, there's a section all about the popularisation of seaside holidays that came about as a result of the Great Western Railway. There are plenty of vintage travel posters to look at, which was fascinating for me as a marketing professional with a passion for travel.

Of course, life in the 1950s had its drawbacks, but STEAM museum definitely makes you feel like you've returned to a more glamorous age for a little while!




















Pittville Park, Cheltenham

Another exciting thing that happened recently was that I started driving again for the first time since 2016. My parents went on holiday for a week in April and put me and Claudio on the insurance for their car for the month, so that we could get around while they were away. Claudio has always been hugely passionate about cars and driving, but I was never a very confident driver, so I felt quite nervous about getting behind the wheel again. However, I surprised myself by how much I enjoyed getting back into driving - it gives you so much freedom, especially when you live in a rural area, as we do at the moment.

During the week that my parents were away, we went all over the local area, to places including Jubilee Lake, Somerford Common Wood (we didn't see any wallabies, but we did see a beautiful deer!), Lower Moor Nature Reserve, Malmesbury and Ashdown House. We had a fantastic time! But the first place we went, after dropping my parents at the train station on the Sunday, was Cheltenham.

Cheltenham has to be one of my favourite towns/cities in the UK - it has the beauty and European elegance of places like Bath and Oxford, but without the crowds of tourists. 

Although I'd been there many times, there was one particular attraction that I'd wanted to visit for years, but never made it to, given that it's a bit further out from the town centre: Pittville Park. This park is known for its lake and the grand, elegant Pump Room. We finally got there on our recent visit, and spent a lovely hour or two walking around the beautiful green space, before enjoying some food and shopping back in the town centre. A great way to start our week of freedom!










South Cerney

After our time in Cheltenham, we didn't want the day out to end just yet, so we stopped off at South Cerney in the Cotswold Water Park for a little walk. This is such a pretty Cotswold village, which is somewhat off the radar compared to other, similar villages, making it very tranquil. We were lucky enough to spot two deer there!






Our Cotswold Road Trip!

During the week, I booked a day off from work, allowing us to take a longer trip. We decided to use this day to go up through the Cotswolds to Moreton-in-Marsh, where we visited Batsford Arboretum followed by Sezincote. These are two places that I discovered during the pandemic travel restrictions, and are actually two of my favourite places in the entire Cotswold area, though they are not that well known - perhaps because they are not your typical Cotswold destinations. Batsford Arboretum is heavily inspired by Japan, and boasts the UK's national collection of cherry blossom trees, along with a Japanese rest house and many other Japanese garden features. And literally just across the road, you'll find Sezincote House and Gardens, which takes inspiration from India, with a beautiful palace reminiscent of the Taj Mahal, and picturesque gardens filled with exotic plants and even a Hindu temple. So going to both places feels like taking a fabulous journey through Asia in just one day, without even having to leave the UK!






On the way back, we continued our world travels with a stop off in the Venice of the Cotswolds, Bourton-on-the-Water! Claudio had never visited this particular Cotswolds village before, and he absolutely loved it! We finished off our afternoon there with a traditional afternoon tea next to the river, which felt like a really special experience.









New Zealand!

I didn't expect to visit New Zealand this April, and I certainly didn't expect to go there and back home in one evening after work - but that's exactly what happened! 

Yes, unsurprisingly, this wasn't the actual country of New Zealand, but rather a hamlet with the same name in Wiltshire! It's only about 20 minutes away from my house, and I'd always been intrigued by it, purely because of its name, but had never actually been there. However, having access to the car gave us a perfect opportunity to take an evening drive there and get photos with the road sign!

New Zealand is basically just one road with some cottages and farms, so not exactly a tourist destination. However, we did see some gorgeous Shetland ponies and a muntjac deer there, and the scenery was very green and pretty. Maybe it's not too dissimilar from the other New Zealand after all!






Easton Grey

Another new place we recently visited was the village of Easton Grey, near Malmesbury. If you're ever visiting the Cotswolds area and want to discover a picture-perfect village without any tourists, this is the place you need to go! 

In fact, my parents actually only found out about it by accident a few months ago, when a road was closed, and they had to pass through it in order to get to where they were going. They later told us that it looked just like Castle Combe, and I can now confirm that that's true!

Though it's lacking the tearooms of more touristic Cotswolds villages, Easton Grey is just as beautiful. Claudio and I had a lovely, tranquil walk around the village, and definitely appreciated the lack of selfie sticks and coaches!






A Cotswold Water Park Walk

April 31st was our last day with car insurance, and we decided to make the most of it by driving up to the Cotswold Water Park after work. We parked at the car park by The Gateway Café and had a nice evening walk around the lake by the De Vere Hotel. It's a really beautiful place to walk, and to make things even better, we said hello to some cats!






Our Weekend in London!

To celebrate the anniversary of our civil union, Claudio and I spent a weekend in London. This was when Claudio had his first experience of West End theatre! We went to see Les Misérables, which is my absolute favourite show of all time, and I was really pleased that he enjoyed it just as much as I did!





We had a fabulous few days exploring London's sights, including Big Ben (the first time Claudio saw it properly, without scaffolding!), Tower Bridge, the National Gallery (very busy but amazing paintings), Fortnum & Mason (more of an experience than a shop), and Greenwich Park.

We actually stayed just outside of Greater London, partly to save money, as hotels in the centre are hugely expensive these days, but also to get an idea of what it would be like to live a little outside the capital and commute in. This gave us the chance to see some different parts of the city while travelling in by train or bus, and gave us some ideas of areas we could potentially live in in the future!








Chepstow

During the May heatwave, we crossed over the Severn Bridge into Wales to visit my godfather in Chepstow. Claudio loved seeing the castle, and it was a lot of fun crossing the little bridge between England and Wales!

We had lunch at Panevino Italian restaurant at an outside table right by the river, and with the sunshine, it almost felt like being on holiday somewhere in the Mediterranean. The food was delicious, and we were delighted to meet a lovely cat there!




Broadway Tower and Nuclear Bunker

One of the places in the Cotswolds that Claudio really wanted to visit was Broadway Tower. So on another sunny Saturday, we went up into Worcestershire for a nice day out.

It was great to visit the little castle, which really looks quite magical, located on one of the highest hills in the Cotswolds and surrounded by rolling countryside.





We were also lucky enough to see (and stroke!) some beautiful and very tame deer while we were there!




In addition to the castle, Claudio and I visited the nearby nuclear bunker, which was quite fascinating. It was built during the cold war and has been preserved to look as it did then. You have to climb down a steep ladder to get in, and once inside, you can see all of the different equipment that the volunteers who looked after the bunker used to use. It gives you a real insight into a very interesting period of history.









Well, I think that just about covers everything!

We've had some really great times over the last few months, and we even managed to fit in another, slightly longer trip last week that I'll be writing about next.

Sadly, Claudio will now be returning to Chile, as he has to go back there in order to complete the visa application. We're hopeful that it will be approved quickly, and we'll be able to start setting up our life together in the UK in a few months time.

So, there won't be any big travels featured on this blog for a little while, but there are lots of things I plan to write about, and I also want to pay some attention to my Instagram, Pinterest and Pexels accounts, which have been a little bit neglected recently.

See you back here very soon!